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1.They did not benefit

I remember once receiving a message on my mobile phone
which read: “Dear Shaykh, what is the ruling on suicide?”
I called the sender to find a very young man on the other
end of the line. I said, “I am sorry, I didn’t understand your question.
Can you please repeat your question?”
He said with a grieving voice, “The question is clear. What is
the ruling on suicide?”
I decided to surprise him by saying in response something
unexpected, so I said, “It is recommended!”
He screamed, “What?!”
I said, “How about if we discuss the best way for you to do
it?”
The young man fell silent. I said to him, “OK. Why do you
want to commit suicide?”
He said, “Because, I can’t find work. People do not love me.
In fact, I am an utter failure…”, and thus he began to relate to me
his long story in order to prove that he had failed to develop his
interpersonal skills and was unsuccessful in utilising his talents.
This is a problem with many people.

 

Why do some of us feel
inferior? Why do we look at those at the peak of the mountain
while thinking of ourselves as unworthy of reaching that peak as
they have, or even climbing it as they did?
The one frightened of climbing mountains
forever lives in the ditches

 
Do you wish to know who will not benefit from this book,
or any other similar book, for that matter? It is the unfortunate
one who surrenders to his own errors and becomes satisfied
with his limited skills, and says, “This is my nature. I have become
too used to it now; I cannot change my ways. Everyone knows
this is how I am. I can never speak like Khalid does, or have a
cheerful countenance like Ahmad has, or be universally loved the
way Ziyad is. That would be impossible.”

 
I once sat with a very old man in a public gathering. Most
of those present were people with the usual skills and abilities.
The old man was busy speaking to whoever was sitting next to
him. He did not stand out in the crowd for any reason, except by
virtue of his old age.

 
I delivered a lecture and during it mentioned a verdict given
by the eminent Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Aziz bin Baz. When I finished, the
old man said to me with pride, “Shaykh Ibn Baz and I were colleagues.
We used to study together in a mosque under Shaykh
Muhammad bin Ibrahim, about forty years ago.”

 
I turned around to look at him and noticed that he seemed
very happy to share this information with me. He was delighted
to have accompanied a successful man once in his life. I said to
myself, “Poor man! Why did you not become as successful as Ibn
Baz? If you knew the way to success, why did you not pursue it?

Why is it that when Ibn Baz passes away, people cry for him from
the pulpits, mihrabs, and institutes, and various nations grieve
over the loss; yet, when your death comes, perhaps, nobody
would shed a single tear, except out of kindness or custom!”

 
We all may say at some time or another, “We knew so-andso
and we sat with so-and-so.” But this is nothing to be proud of.
What one can be proud of is to scale the peak as they did.

 
Be brave and from now on be determined to utilise all the
abilities you possess. Be successful. Replace the frown on your
face with a smile, depression with cheerfulness, miserliness with
generosity, and anger with perseverance. Turn your calamities
into occasions of joy and your faith into a weapon!

 
Enjoy your life, for it is brief and there is no time in it for
anguish. As for how to do this, then this is the reason for my
writing this book. So bear with me until the end, with Allah’s
permission.

 
You will bear with us if…
You are brave enough to be determined and persistent on
the development of your interpersonal skills, and if you are willing
to take advantage of your abilities and talents.

Do read the Topic No. 2

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